It rained almost our entire weekend at Banyan Tree Mayakoba.
Not the quick tropical rain that blows through and gives you an excuse to order another drink. Rain. The kind that changes the trip.
And, strangely, we’re glad it did.
Because perfect weather makes almost every beautiful resort look good. Two days of rain with an eight-month-old tells you whether a hotel actually works.
Could an $800-a-night resort still feel worth the money when the beach isn’t particularly usable, you’re spending more time than expected in your villa, and your baby still needs to nap no matter what the forecast says?
For us, yes.
And the reasons why changed what we would tell another family to book.
The entry-level villa was more than enough
We booked a Bliss Pool Villa, Banyan Tree’s entry-level villa category, and it was one of the best rooms we’ve stayed in on this coast.
Calling it a room doesn’t quite work. It feels more like your own little resort inside the resort.
The outdoor space is enormous: a dining table and four chairs, hammock, covered lounge, uncovered lounger, outdoor bathtub and a large private pool heated to the kind of temperature that makes rain almost irrelevant.
Inside, high ceilings and curtains let you choose between a room flooded with natural light and a genuine blackout. The bedding is luxurious. There are lighting controls from the bed, plenty of outlets and USB-C ports, strong Wi-Fi, Nespresso and tea, reusable glass water bottles, excellent shower pressure and separate climate control for the bathroom, which is the kind of small luxury you don’t know you need until you have it.
But here’s why we’re telling you all of this in The Family Edit.
When our son went down for a nap, our vacation didn’t have to stop.
One of us could be outside in the pool, under the covered lounge or having lunch while he slept inside. During one nap, I took a bath in the outdoor tub. Housekeeping had lit the tea lights around it and left bath foam and oil.
Baby asleep. Rain falling. Mama in an outdoor bath.
Still on vacation.
Parents of babies will understand why this matters.
One of the great frustrations of traveling with a baby is paying for a beautiful resort and then spending two hours of the afternoon sitting silently in a dark hotel room because someone has to nap.
The Bliss Pool Villa changes that equation.
Would we upgrade?
Maybe, but not for the reason you’d think.
For another trip with a baby, we’d look seriously at the Serenity Pool Villa with Living Room. The Bliss gave us plenty of space, but a separate living room would give you even more separation during naps and after bedtime.
We also toured a two-bedroom family villa because we absolutely plan to come back with our older girls.
Surprisingly, seeing it made us appreciate our villa more.
In the configuration we toured, you enter on the upper level and the bedrooms are downstairs. To us, the bedroom level felt darker and more closed-in than the openness we’d been enjoying all weekend.
That’s one villa, on one afternoon, and room preferences are deeply personal. But it changed our thinking.
For a couple with a baby, we’d happily book the Bliss again. If we wanted more separation, we’d look at the Serenity Pool Villa with Living Room. And even when we return with the whole family, we wouldn’t automatically assume the two-bedroom is the right answer simply because we’re bringing more people.
At Banyan Tree, we would choose the villa based on how we want to live in it, not just how many people it sleeps.
What two days of rain revealed
Rain strips a resort down to what still works when the postcard version of the trip disappears.
For us, that meant the villa, the food and the people.
The heated private pool mattered. The covered outdoor living space became our living room. Room service arrived quickly and, importantly, hot.
And Banyan Tree lets you order from its restaurants for in-villa dining.
One of our first dates as a couple was at Saffron years ago. This time, we ate Saffron in our villa rather than carrying a baby through a downpour to dinner.
We ate burgers, pasta, wraps and skirt steak during the weekend. We ordered dessert at night. We didn’t eat a single thing we didn’t like.
We also learned, too late for this trip, that Banyan Tree can arrange a barbecue at your villa.
Next time.
The covered buggies mattered too. So did blackout curtains that actually black out. And our particular villa location, just steps from breakfast, became even more valuable when it was pouring.
Good design shouldn’t stop working when the weather changes.
Ours didn’t.
The people are the reason we would return
There is a heart of service and hospitality running through this property that is difficult to fake.
Josué has spent more than 25 years in luxury hospitality and is a certified butler. He is a difficult audience when it comes to service.
He was repeatedly impressed here.
At Oriente, the breakfast team learned our son’s name and greeted him by it. They asked what he liked to eat. They played with him. They brought him a banana with a tiny spoon that was just right for him.
Chef Gina stopped at our table, shared that she has a one-year-old herself and knew exactly what this stage of figuring out food looks like. She personally cut fresh fruit for him.
By the end of breakfast, it didn’t feel like a restaurant staff being good with babies. It felt like a room full of people genuinely delighted that our son was there.
There is a difference.
Guadalupe, who manages Oriente, helped set that tone.
Omar served us our first morning. He was quick, several steps ahead of what we needed and generous with information about the property and surrounding area.
At the made-to-order station, Mafer made a chicken tinga quesadilla I am still thinking about.
And then there was Edson.
He is the one Josué keeps bringing up.
Edson made real recommendations, learned our preferences, anticipated what we needed, made sure we knew all of the options available to us and, critically, kept the mimosas coming.
Josué does not hand out praise for service easily.
We would come back for Edson.
At Reflections Pool, Cristobal and Francisco made us feel like a king and queen. Service was quick and thorough, and their lunch recommendations were excellent.
At Sands Beach Club, Jazmin took a rainy day and a baby who needed to nap and found a way to make both work. Juan and Jesus made wonderful drinks and kept checking that our son was comfortable.
The staff changed how we experienced Banyan Tree.
If service is one of the reasons you’re choosing Mayakoba in the first place, Banyan Tree gave us a compelling argument.
I might actually come back for breakfast alone
I know how ridiculous that sounds.
I stand by it.
Breakfast at Oriente was one of the best parts of our stay.
Luxury buffets can trade freshness for sheer abundance. This one didn’t.
There was beautiful fresh fruit, including things that are genuinely harder to find, like rambutan. Mexican breakfast dishes included cochinita and chicken tinga. Breads and tortillas are made on property. The made-to-order stations are actually worth ordering from.
Again: Mafer’s chicken tinga quesadilla.
The coffee was fresh and delicious. There were multiple milk options, including deslactosada for these lactose-intolerant people. My vanilla latte was excellent.
Mimosas and Bloody Marys are included with the buffet, and there are à la carte options as well.
But what made breakfast exceptional wasn’t any single dish.
It was the combination of genuinely good food and a team that made us feel cared for every morning.
Yes. I might book Banyan Tree for breakfast alone.
Reflections Pool, which nobody told us about
One of our favorite discoveries was a pool we didn’t know existed until someone at breakfast told us.
Reflections Pool felt almost hidden.
It is arranged in a loop with individual seating alcoves, each with its own sloped entrance into the water as well as steps. The water appeared to be roughly three to four feet deep.
There were loungers, covered couches, tables and towels already waiting.
And almost nobody there.
For us, with a baby, it was perfect.
The gradual entry let us sit and play with him comfortably. The atmosphere was incredibly tranquil. There was attentive food and drink service, and there is a restroom nearby with a changing table.
It isn’t heated, but it was lovely in the sun and manageable even in the shade.
We preferred it to the beach club by a wide margin.
And because our Bliss Pool Villa was near both Reflections and Oriente, we accidentally ended up in what may have been our ideal part of the resort.
Which makes it even stranger that nobody mentioned Reflections when we checked in.
The arrival didn’t match the rest of the hotel
This was the clear miss.
We arrived around 4:30 p.m., in heavy rain, with a baby and stroller. Our villa was ready, and the bell staff immediately helped with our luggage.
But before we’d really made it into the lobby or had a chance to settle, we were asked for our passports and credit card.
Josué’s read on this is useful because it’s the kind of thing a guest may feel without knowing exactly why.
At this level of hospitality, the sequence matters.
Receive the guest. Let them physically arrive. Welcome them. Give them a moment. Then handle identification and payment once they’re comfortably seated.
Reverse that order and the experience changes.
You feel processed instead of received.
We were eventually seated with a fresh chaya drink and amaranth balls, but check-in took about thirty minutes and felt hurried.
More importantly, we left without much of an orientation.
We were told about one breakfast restaurant, but not the other. We weren’t meaningfully walked through the layout of the property, dining, transportation, activities, in-villa dining or how to reach our host.
Nobody mentioned Reflections Pool.
We figured out quite a bit through the room phone, television and, ironically, the breakfast staff.
The villa orientation was similarly thin, which is a shame because there are things in the villa worth explaining.
Our key cards didn’t work, and we had to call several hours later for replacements. There was no follow-up.
Our crib also wasn’t set up when we arrived, despite the hotel knowing we were traveling with an eight-month-old.
We want to be precise about what this is and isn’t.
We don’t think Banyan Tree has a hospitality problem. Everything after those first ninety minutes argued the opposite.
The arrival simply didn’t match the level of hospitality we experienced everywhere else.
And the rain made those gaps more noticeable. Arriving with an infant during a downpour was exactly when we needed a clear handoff, useful orientation and someone to anticipate what came next.
Instead, we figured too much of it out ourselves.
The beach isn’t the reason we’d come
We love Isla Mujeres.
That means our beach standards are probably unreasonable.
We know.
But even grading on a Riviera Maya curve, Banyan Tree’s beach isn’t the reason we’d tell you to stay here.
During our visit, we found it eroded. The water wasn’t especially clear, the sand wasn’t remarkable and the view wasn’t one we’d travel for.
The people, again, made the experience considerably better than the beach itself.
At Sands Beach Club, we were quoted around $450 USD for one of the daybeds, with some amount applicable toward food and drinks. They are genuinely lovely: shaded platforms set out over the water, with the beach just beyond them.
For two adults and a baby who had just finished breakfast, the consumption minimum simply didn’t make sense for us.
Instead, Jazmin helped us find a shaded beach pod that worked beautifully for our son’s nap.
That’s the kind of service we kept encountering here: not simply telling us what was available, but helping us find what actually worked for our family.
If gorgeous Caribbean water is the point of your trip, Banyan Tree wouldn’t be our first choice. Our guide to where to stay on this coast goes area by area on exactly that.
If the villa, food and service matter more?
Now we’re having a different conversation.
With a baby, here’s what you should know
The human welcome for our baby was exceptional.
The baby infrastructure was less complete.
Both things can be true.
Restaurants had clean, good-quality high chairs available without us needing to ask. Staff consistently asked about allergies. The crib and bedding were high quality once they arrived. Buggy and bell staff handled our stroller beautifully. The resort itself is reasonably stroller friendly.
And the villa was fantastic for naps.
We were not proactively offered baby bath products, a bottle sterilizer, diaper pail, high chair for the villa or baby food.
None of those things were dealbreakers for us. Importantly, we didn’t request them and get told no.
But parents accustomed to resorts with extensive baby amenities should know they weren’t proactively offered during our stay.
Changing tables were also inconsistent. There was one near the kids’ pool at Reflections. There wasn’t one in the Sands Beach Club restroom we used or the lobby restroom we used.
I’m a pretty easygoing traveling mama. I’ll breastfeed wherever we happen to be and discreetly change my baby wherever I need to.
If you’re more particular about having dedicated baby facilities available everywhere, you’ll notice the gaps more than I did.
One thing I would think carefully about with a mobile baby or toddler is the private pool.
The pool can be accessed directly from the room as well as by steps. With our eight-month-old, who isn’t independently mobile yet, it worked beautifully.
With a crawler or new walker, I’d look at that setup differently.
And finally: Banyan Tree is built into the mangroves.
There are mosquitoes. Repellent is available.
There is no five-star arrangement with nature that makes mosquitoes understand what you paid for the room.
The Edit
- Best for: Couples traveling with a baby who want privacy, genuinely good food and enough space to continue having a vacation during naps.
- What we’d book: For two adults and a baby, the Bliss Pool Villa absolutely worked. If you want more indoor separation, we’d look at the Serenity Pool Villa with Living Room. We’d request a location near Oriente and Reflections.
- Come for: The villas. Breakfast at Oriente. Exceptional people. The feeling that you can retreat into your own space without giving up the resort experience.
- Don’t come primarily for: The beach.
- Know before you go: The baby infrastructure isn’t as comprehensive as the hospitality toward babies would suggest. And think carefully about direct pool access with a mobile child.
- What we’d do next time: Bring our girls. Try breakfast at Sands. Take the complimentary lagoon boat ride. Book the private villa barbecue. Spend even more time at Reflections.
Would we return?
Absolutely.
And next time, we’re bringing the girls.